Before I found the adoptive family for my child, It was unsettling, because I didn’t know who my baby was going to live with. Now that I know what genuine, good people they are, it’s like a weight has been lifted. That’s how perfect they are. And I don’t know what it is. I read the first page of their profile and knew they were the family. I just knew in my heart. The best thing about adoption is you choose the family. If you don’t like the first ten profiles and none connect with you, keep asking for more until you find them. I want other birthmoms to know that their child’s family is out there. Finding them can be a process, but the peace of mind I feel right now makes everything worth it.