How Birthmothers Can Talk to Family and Friends About Adoption
When you first find out that you’re pregnant, you may not know who to turn to or who to talk to. Once you do begin confiding in friends and family,…
When you first find out that you’re pregnant, you may not know who to turn to or who to talk to. Once you do begin confiding in friends and family,…
Birth mothers do not just walk away and forget about the child they gave up for adoption. The pregnancy and birth experience is as life-changing for them as it is…
When Birthmom Elizabeth received the pictures of her ultrasound, she was shocked to see the most perfect image of a heart on the baby's head and it was just the…
To any Birthmother wondering how their child will be loved once adopted or how an adoptive family experiences adoption, please read this beautiful story. We have had our hands and…
The decision to offer your baby for adoption is not an easy one. In fact, it may be the hardest decision you have to make in your life. However, sometimes…
Dear Birthparent…
Thank you for considering me as an adoptive parent for your child. I feel it must take incredible courage and selflessness. Having already started my family through adoption, I think your decision is a generous and courageous act of love. If you choose me, I promise you I will provide a home full of love for your child.
In this family, your child would have a lifetime of sibling support from a sister who shares the bond of adoption and a strong and loving family network nearby. I adopted my daughter, Ayla, in 2017. She is biracial, and I try to honor her heritage by exposing her to biracial books, movies and a diverse group of friends. There is so much more to explore as she gets older, and it’s something I take very seriously. Similarly, your child will be raised with an understanding of their roots and culture. I will do my best to provide a life filled with diversity and I will honor your child’s history. They will always know where they came from and who they are. I look forward to learning about your heritage and making that a part of your child’s life, as I do Ayla’s. I wish you strength and I promise your child will know that your decision was made because of your unconditional love. I would honor any relationship that you would like to consider having with our family.
Dear Birthparent…
Hi there! We are Alex and Paul. We are so excited that you are considering us. THANK YOU! Since we’ve been together we have always dreamed of starting a family. We have always wanted to take our time to ensure we were both ready for the process and the new adventure that awaiting. We are both to happy and excited to be at this stage in our lives, knowing that we can provide a great life for a child and offer a stable, nurturing environment filled with love, adventure and strong family values. Thank you again for considering us!
Dear Birthparent…
Thank you for considering us to be the proud parents of your baby. We admire your strength, courage, and selflessness as you go through this journey. We will do all that we can to support you and we’re honored that you are considering us to be the parents of your child. Our promise to you is that we will love your baby unconditionally. We will strive to provide them with a strong foundation at home, a good education, and the ability to explore their interests and passions. Your baby will have two amazing sisters who will cover them with kisses, make them laugh and love them from the minute they arrive. Holidays will be filled with extended family, fun loving cousins, family traditions, laughter, and joy.
We promise to raise your baby with the deepest understanding of love, kindness, and acceptance. We promise to guide your child as they go through the ups and downs of life that we all experience. We promise to give your baby strength and courage, to be who they were meant to be and finally, we promise to make sure they know how deeply loved they are by you and by us. Throughout this process, we pray for your baby but most importantly, we pray that you find peace in selecting the right family for them.
Dear Birthparent…
We cannot thank you enough for taking the time to consider us as parents to your child. The stress and burden you must be going through with this decision is incomprehensible, but we hope that our profile will give you a glimmer into the life we can offer your child. We are a family of love, laughter and adventure, and can’t wait to share it with your little one. As you read through our page, please know that no picture or words could describe the love and affection we will give. Each day, we’ll strive to give your child a better life than our own. We promise to give your child the absolute best life we can. We will teach love over hate, unity over division, tolerance over ignorance, and kindness over cruelty. We feel that exploring adoption is the most selfless thing you could do, and we thank you again for your consideration!
Dear Birthparent…
Thank you for taking the time to get to know our family. We understand that the decision that you are facing is one that will take strength and bravery. We know that you already have love for your unborn child and we plan to give your child love for a lifetime. We plan to raise the baby around family and friends that will also show them love. We pledge to raise your child in a home filled with laughter and hugs. We will love your child unconditionally, and respect them for all that they are, while honoring your courageous strength. We are blessed with a support system that will be there for us and our adoption journey. From the bottom of our hearts, we thank you for considering us and taking the time to get to know more about us. It is our deepest hope that you share some of the same passions and values, like kindness and spending time with loved ones, and choose us. But no matter what, we know that you will make the absolute best decision for your child. If you choose to place your child with us, we will ensure that you are constantly honored in our house. You are in our thoughts, always! Simply put, we think you are a hero!